Recently I received a short, anonymous entry in my guestbook on Internet Tips and Secrets. It simply said "Change your colors". Short, to the point, and extraordinarily rude. I quickly deleted the entry from my guestbook as it was not appropriate and did not fit well into the context. I don't mind an occasional politely negative but helpful comment, but those which are stupid (as this one was) or blatantly abusive are not necessary.

As I deleted the guestbook entry I thought of the gall of the person who left it (besides the cowardice of leaving a message with no return email address). This is my creation, my web site - who has the right to tell me what colors or navigation scheme or for that matter, anything else (unsolicited).

I believe that many web sites (especially professional ones) have become exceptionally boring and uninteresting. They are cookie-cut from a common mold based upon "user testing". Perhaps you've seen these tests, perhaps not.

What they say is a person's eye wanders from the upper left down to the center of the screen. So the most important thing needs to be in the upper left, and the navigation should be down the left. Colors need to be bland and uninteresting - black on white is best. And blah blah blah. Ho hum, it all looks the same.

People are not created the same. Every single one of us is an individual, with our own unique desires, needs, likes, dislikes, viewpoints, or whatever else you want to call it. Why should our web sites all be the same?

Perhaps it makes sense in the world of business for all web sites to look like Amazon or Yahoo, but if you widen your horizons does it really make sense anywhere else? Is your home page describing your personal life and your cat any better if it looks like someone else's site? Did that make it better somehow?

Are web sites really better if they include the same collection of links? The same news headlines and the same guestbook styles? The same bland colors, the navigation bars in the same place and a few select fonts? Is this good? Is this what we really want from the web?

Even with your standard small business sites, do you really think that someone wants to surf to your site to find that it looks just like all other sites? Does this make them care about your product any more?

So what should you do when you create a web site? If you want to win most of the awards offered by such places as "awardsites.com", then you probably want to create a bland site with perfect HTML, excellent navigation, pages that all match wonderfully and consistently from page to page. You want to spend your time making sure your site matches the common idea of "good", and if you can do that you can win the awards. Your site will look like any other site (bland and uninteresting), but you will win awards.

On the other hand, if you are an individual with your own brain, your own artistic sense and your own strength of character and will, then perhaps you want to create something that YOU like, something that your visitors may also enjoy. Anyone can create a site that wins awards (it's actually very easy, just follow the instructions in your coloring book and remember to draw perfectly within the lines) - only a true artist or simply an individual can create a site which tells a story using their own interesting and unique style.

First and foremost, keep your end user in mind and make it work for them. In other words, make sure it works in their browsers, that they can navigate from place to place easily and, if you sell something, they can purchase it as easily as possible. You are indeed creating something that you would like to be understandable to other people, so be sure and make it understandable.

On the other hand, include a bit of individuality in your site. Make it stand out from the norm - otherwise, your site will just blend in with every other site and will not be remembered for anything.

Use whatever color scheme you want, as long as the text can be easily distinguished from the background. And guess what, your pages don't need to match each other - in fact, you can make every single page different if you want. This is especially true for personal web sites - don't worry about conforming.

Sites don't need to be symmetrical, they don't need to balance and they don't need to match anyone else's criteria of "good". All they need to do is communicate something. Most of the time (since by far most web sites are personal home pages of some kind) they are communicating something about an individual or group.

Black text on white backgrounds are for sissies; Try dozens of different colors until your site looks exactly like you want. Having a perfectly proportioned navigation system exactly the same on every page is boring. Come up with something that gets your users from place to place without being the same as everyone else's system.

Use image maps all over the place - these are great ways to visually show your user how to get around without the same old boring links. Use graphics as you see fit to make your pages shine. Yes, you should worry about image size, but don't worry that much. A few extra seconds of load time is fine (just don't go overboard); people will wait if they feel excited about a site. They will not wait if the site is bland and boring.

Don't even try and add all of those extra doo-dads that so many sites seem to be using these days. Believe me, your site does not need a news feed - every one else already has one and you will not attract any new visitors with them. You don't need to include the cute little quote-of-the-day buttons or the ticker or the weather map. These just tend to make your site look cheap.

Spend your time writing your content, designing your site and working on your graphics. If you do include plug-ins, concentrate on those that build a community such as forms, guestbooks, message boards and even online games. These are the things that attract people - being able to communicate with other people.

And a note to those who judge awards - please take off the blinders. There are many wonderful sites which communicate exceptionally well which deserve gold 5.0+ awards, even though they do not have perfect HTML, even though every page does not match every other page and in spite of a glaring color scheme. I have seen site after site loose major awards simply because some robot is sitting in the judges booth, matching the site against a fixed set of criteria (a way of turning off a judge's brain) instead of really looking at what's important - is the site communicating effectively?

My advice is simple: create a web site which YOU like and don't worry about the awards. If your site communicates something of value to your visitors, then you have succeeded. If not, then regardless of how many awards you've won, you've failed.

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